Category: social action (Page 2 of 2)

When you give the sick a hand gun

One of my family members suffers from a significant mental illness. It debilitates him to the point that he cannot work, even at a fast food joint, and the state agreed. He receives a small amount of money for living expenses, namely to pay rent because the state did allow him to live outside of direct monitoring. His parents kept a good eye on him, checked in regularly and felt they had a grasp on his condition and whereabouts.

About a year ago he was taken to jail. He somehow laid hold of a handgun. It made sense to him to practice, so he went into his back yard and shot off several rounds. His neighbors, just a few hundred feet away, freaked out (rightly so) and called the cops (100% justified. We’re thankful!).

Our family was shocked and scared. Everyone was thinking the same thing: How the HELL did he get a gun?

We. Don’t. Know. (He has since been put back into the care of his parents).

He lives in Hardin County, where guns are as common as dogs. Perhaps he picked it up at the lemonade stand on the corner. Or he traded an X-box for it. We really don’t know. If he did go to a legal source for firearms, we’ve got a bigger problem because this individual is legally deemed unable to function as a normal citizen of society.

So, we’re left with: where did the gun come from?

One day I was perusing the Miami County Online Rummage Sale. This is what pops into the feed:

guns

 

Yes, an online garage sale. And let’s note why the interested party didn’t follow through.

Gun control is a complicated issue, not easily resolved in a single blog post, though several of us have tried. I realize that we have a population of responsible gun-owning citizens (full disclosure: we have guns in our house, in a locked safe). The majority reports to the correct authorities when they buy or sell a weapon and follow proper procedure (or what there is).

Yet the mentally ill can easily navigate their social context – or even Facebook – and find what they’re looking for. Sometimes, it even gets delivered to the newsfeed.

I know little about the last shooting. I don’t have statistics or figures about gun violence or deterrence. I don’t even have solutions. I have a mentally ill family member able to get his hands on a pistol scaring the BeJebus out of the neighborhood.

Some advocate for our right to carry, but no number of gun-carrying citizens stopped him from shooting in his back yard. Praise Jesus, because I can only imagine his response. More guns is not the answer. No guns is not an answer.

Caring for the mentally ill might be an answer. Monitoring the loose methods of buying and selling firearms might be an answer. Really, I think we have an open space of possible answers if we simply decide that the current mode of operation simply isn’t working.

The fallacy of the share button

A while back I posted an article on FB regarding Devion, the orphan who went to a church asking “someone, anyone” to adopt him. It left an imprint on my heart that a teenager would so bravely become vulnerable to so many strangers. I can’t imagine the hurt he feels for him to break through an I’m-alright-I-don’t-need-anyone facade. 

Later, it struck me how many people had commented on the link or shared it, remarking how much their heart hurt for the boy. I did it. I shared it out of my feed and and it did leave a chip in my heart. 
And then, it just stopped. Did I call to find out more? No. Did I do more reading about stateside adoption and foster care? No. I went about my day. I made dinner. I ran a bath. I probably read my book club book. 
I love social media and the access to information it provides. But with great privilege comes great responsibility. The trouble with our information age is we’re sopping wet, swimming in information, so much so that we hardly have a chance to let it soak in. We’ve developed scales because we simply cannot let so much hurt or pain we see in the world really get into our hearts and have an impact. 
Shane Hipps has a book about the Hidden Power of the Electronic Culture: How Media Shapes Faith, Gospel and Church. I haven’t read the book in its entirety but I heard a message he gave on its principles. The basic idea is that we have so much access to information that we become dull to it.

Even worse, we begin to believe that we’re “doing something” to spread the word of the world’s evils by hitting the share button, when in fact we’re simply actively, rather than passively, ignoring the need. We’re looking the world’s challenges in the eye, nodding, and wishing them a nice day. “Someone should do something about that,” we say.

I belong in the choir loft on this one – I love sharing what I read. (Defense number one: I honestly share a very small proportion of what I read. I tend to read so much that I have to share a small proportion of it or I believe I’ll bust. I need to converse about these things). But while we jump hurdle #1 of awareness, we stand in front of the next one and gawk at it. Whew, I’m so tired from telling all my friends that I don’t have any energy to actually do something about it.

I, like many others, frequently wish to take action but feel so small and inadequate in dealing with the world’s problems. Sometimes the only thing I can think of doing is hitting the share button. Perhaps that’s okay, as long as I don’t let myself be fooled into thinking I’m making a huge difference until I put on my shoes. It’s not just the talking, but the walking, that will matter at the end of the day. 

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