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here we go round the blueberry bush

A few months ago, when husband and I were engaged in yet another talk about options for our future, he asked what I wanted. 

“I just want to be able to plant a blueberry bush. And eat its blueberries.” I replied. I was tired of the wait-and-see, perhaps-we’ll-move game when it came to job hunting. So we made the decision that he wouldn’t apply and relocate for just any job for the sake of having a job. And I planted a blueberry bush. Two of them to be exact. 
Apparently, that’s all it takes for things to change. 
Just 2 weeks ago his friend that helped him get his sub-gig at Troy sent him a message that she would be leaving her post, so he put in his application. He was called for an interview, but couldn’t get off work short notice, so he just had a quick phone interview yesterday. 
Today they called with an offer. 
For some reason, neither of us really expected this interview route to actually lead somewhere. It could be the cynicism of doing is to many times before only to amount to a “you were next in line” or it could just be denial. We finally came to a place of being content with staying local and he had come to terms with his part-time other job. We were making it work and had said that whatever would come, we would own it; we wouldn’t be the victim of circumstance but the makers of good things in any situation. 
So, we shall now sell a house (after getting it re-sided and re-roofed), buy a house, have a baby and start a job all within a very short time frame. Wow. I know I need to start making lists and schedules, but I don’t know where to begin. And here I thought I was really putting us ahead of the game by sorting through our clothes and thinning out the closets. But at least it’ll be that much less to move!
So while it has a slight bite to it, the situation is quite sweet as well. We’re really sad to be leaving our community and our friends. That reality hasn’t even begun to set in yet. But we’re also excited about what the opportunity might bring. He knows he likes the school, the principal and the kids. He gets to teach the subject area he was trained in. We’ll have health insurance. And it’s only an hour’s drive away; we’re not crossing any state borders. 
But we’re moving. Quickly. 
So, if you’ll excuse me, I need to do some checking in Trulia for 4 bedroom homes. 

the good life

My dad has always been a smart guy. And not just in the how-can-we-save-the-most-money-at-Wendy’s-by-ordering-one-combo-and-splitting-the-fries kind of way; he’s got book brains, too. And, as is the case, smart people attract smart people (which is why my friends all seem brilliant!). So, when dad spent his time at THE Ohio State University, he roomed with some smart fellas as well. Now, for those of you who have met Steve, you might not have guessed this. But Steve and Dan, his roomies for 4 years, went on to very successful business careers with big companies. Dad says, “they did alright for themselves.” 

Dad, on the other hand, returned to the farm, sowing beans and selling a few houses. No big city skyscrapers or relocation to packages for him. He did well, if you ask me, but he definately didn’t pick a career that required a large wardrobe of suits. I’m not sure of his actual feelings on his life, but I’d have to guess that at some point in his life, he asked himself if he missed out on something by returning home to the simple Hardin County life. I’ve wondered, in their annual roommate reunions, if dad had any jealousy over their ability to pick a classy wine or talk about their multiple (seasonal) houses and vacation packages to Vail. 

Then dad told me of a recent trip to see Dan at their “winter home” in Florida. Apparently Dan has quite the nifty fishing boat, with all kinds of depth- and fish-finding gadgets, so he has taken up the hobby and spends several days out on the water with his own father. So Dan took dad for a ride and they even caught a few on a recent trip (they also brought them home and ate them and dad was quite impressed with the results). 

While out on the boat, dad complimented Dan on how his life ended up; he told Dan, “I hope you realize just how lucky you have it.” Dan looked around the gadget-y boat and back to the luxury home and agreed, “You know, it is pretty good.” But dad explained, “The fact that you get to come out here with your dad and fish whenever you want. I hope you know just how lucky you are. I’d give anything to be able to spend that kind of time with my dad again.” 

And that’s when I knew my dad really did live the life he wanted. I’m sure the paycheck could’ve been bigger with a corporate finance career, but my dad knew that true riches were found in a man’s home. And he has blessed many of us with a much richer life with his humor, wisdom and love. 

This father’s day I’m going to spend it out on the boat with my father. We probably won’t be fishing – though we may go to a restaurant that serves fish. Even if he can’t spend that time with his father, I know that I can spend time with mine. And so I will. Not just on Fathers day, but as often as possible.


(Originally written last year on Fathers Day. Still true.) 

the farmer and his cow

We bought a family cow. Not Bessie, my hypothetical cow that I tell Husband we will be purchasing once H is old enough to milk her daily (she wears a hypothetical bell around her neck as well and wonders in the pasture of our hypothetical country estate). No, this is a different cow and will require a lot less work than Bessie as this cow will be lacking moving appendages and the ability to… well, remain living. 

For the past few summers we’ve purchased freezer beef with our in-laws and have appreciated the economic advantage as well as the selection of meat readily available in the freezer (we’ve upgraded to a garage freezer AND a fridge/freezer combo). However, with all my nutty reading and the like, we wanted the next cow to be entirely grass fed (see earlier posts on why I don’t believe corn and soy are real food). For major carnivores, think of it this way: if we’re eating so much meat, we’re consuming less veggies. So, we just figure we can let the cow do it for us. Grass fed cow = meat AND veggies. Brilliant. (No, that’s not really the reasoning, but if I started in on that topic, I’ll never finish the post by the time the kids wake up from naps). 
So, I called the most resourceful people I know. My parents. (Does everyone’s parents always “know someone” or is it just mine?) “We’d like to find a cow,” I said. As luck has it, they decided they’d share in part of the beef. 
So my dad walked into the local butcher shop and said, “we’d like to buy 1500 pounds of your best grass-fed beef.” Ok, I’m sure that’s not the exact phrase he used, but he did stop by Mt. Victory Meats and explained our beefy desires to the owner. So, the owner called a farmer. The farmer sold us a cow. The butcher will process the cow. And we will consume it, starting sometime around mid-July (you know, nothing welcomes home a baby like a freezer full of meat). 
The process of buying meat was absurdly simple and completely over-complicated all at the same time. Because we’re so used to the convenience of grocery shopping our meat on a weekly basis, and simply consuming whatever is offered without question of where the animal came from or how it was raised – it was a bit boggling to think of these considerations. But it was also so simple. I mean, really – you need meat? Call the butcher. He works with the farmer. 
We are paying a little bit more of a price than the last batch of beef we bought; when you per-pound it and take into consideration the ground beef and the steaks and roasts, it’s not bad of a price – still cheaper than your Whole Foods shelves, but probably a tad more than Meijer. However, after doing my newest reading in Radical Homemakers, I’m excited to know how much more power our dollars will have for both our farmer and our butcher (isn’t it 3x the dollar power? I’ve seen the stat numerous times in numerous places). We’re contributing to the livelihood of more than our own family by keeping purchases local. 
The same goes for the $14 [huge] bucket of strawberries I brought home from our Suter’s barn down the road. Sure, they’re pricier than the faux-berries that Meijer has to offer, but keeping the Suter family in business also ensures I can get my zucchini and cucumber later this season (since I didn’t plant any). 
The local farm, if you ask me, is stuck between a rock and a hard place of mega-farming and super Agribusiness. How do they keep prices low enough on their produce to compete with the 3 major corporations that control 97% of our food supply? (That figure was slightly made up, but it’s close. I can site Radical Homemakers as a source, but I’m not willing to walk upstairs and give you specifics. Read the book yourself and be awed). And if the farmers offer that price, how do they make a living? They’d have to produce far more. But then we begin wading into the world of sustainability and labor practices. 
The long and the short of it, for our family as of late, is we simply expect to pay a bit more for good, real and local food. Yes, I do know that berries are 2/$3 at the supermarket. But you get what you pay for. And, someone else pays for what you get (I’m sure the picker of the supermarket berries didn’t get paid the same wage as the Pandora teenager that told me who to write the check to). 
But, as you may be asking… how can you afford to pay more for food? Well, to put it simply, we pay less for other stuff. We don’t eat out often. Our kids don’t get new toys upon trips to the store. And we refuse to buy the “cheap” food altogether, which allows more room in the food budget for real stuff (ok, Husband has successfully lobbied for tortilla chips on a regular basis and crackers semi-regularly. And he sneaks a bag of *bleck* beef jerky every time he buys the dog food. So don’t hunt through my kitchen and call me a hypocrite or a bad Amish). If you don’t buy the Cheetos or Cheez-its or Lean Cuisines then that’s money saved, even if the price tag wants to sell you otherwise. 
Many other issues arise when making the break from the cheap food cycle – time to prepare it for sure, and, well, how many ways can you cook a cow anyways?. Those will have to await a later post; for now I say they’re justified questions that require lifestyle change. It’s one that I’m excited about making, but doesn’t exactly make everyone skitter with glee. Then again, I like to run long distances and have babies without drugs and do other things that seem like torment to others. I’m weird. I’ll own that. 
All of this to say, “thanks Mt. Victory Meats and Mr. Local Farmer!” Our freezer is getting bare and we’re excited to know it’ll be filled soon. 
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